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I felt compelled to revisit this in light of Vance’s statements about single cat women and how people without families/children don’t have skin in the game or something. A degree of projection going on or something.

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I think it’s much more simple. Child support costs have crippled many of the aspirations of American men. They are angry, since it’s mostly men who pay the cost. Trump, personifies the why should I care, I’m the victim, it’s all about me mentality which appeals to them.

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Campisite next to me at Banff had a vinyl-wrapped Cybertruck, and as a life-long truck owner, I can tell you with great confidence: Cybertrucks are as ridiculous as they are impractical. Do NOT buy (not than many Bulwark subscribers need that advice).

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We will never be right with Democracy again until we investigate the RNC and the 133 R's who voted in block to not certify the election. They all are co-conspirators to defraud the US.

We must call on Garland to investigate, subpoena all electronic records of these traitors, and present it to a grand jury and get indictments and prosecute them all.

The RNC was neck deep in the fake electors....

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This comment relates to the Just Between Us podcast this week and specifically to JVL and Mona. I am a lifelong liberal Democrat. I would vote for Biden over Trump even if he was totally senile. However, I hope he chooses to withdraw his nomination because I do not believe he can present a forceful attack on the dangers of Trump and Project 2025. This is a very difficult decision for Biden , of course, but is for all of us who revere him.

JVL and Mona and all the other Bulwarkers - I am really sorry you have faced so much criticism from some of my fellow Democrats. You are only speaking the truth and living in the sad reality that Biden, at least as a candidate, is diminished. I have gone back and forth on what I think Joe and the Democrats should do. I have finally come to the belief that a younger more vigorous candidate is needed. Shame on those who have criticized all of us wrestling with this sad state of affairs.

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And yet the divorced dudes probably don't know that Trump's 2017 tax cuts eliminated their ability to deduct alimony from the yearly income taxes. Why let facts get in the way of taking a bath in your resentments and anger?

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Speaking of divorce, why has media divorced itself from following up on the Helsinki story about Trump using a Russian translator back in the day. Back when the question of Russian influence on the 2016 election was more active. At the time it appeared Putin had “something” on DT. Photos? Tapes?

JVL, use your considerable resources to find that translator! It’s all hands on deck and the Titanic is approaching the iceberg zone.

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Chef’s kiss on divorced dude energy description. It tracks in a few cases I personally know. Thanks for making me laugh with Drew Magary’s cybertruck descriptions. That monstrosity is a good metaphor for Trump- how in the hell are people buying that shit?

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What I can’t unsee are all the mailings my aggrieved, MAGA- loving husband receives from Trump and his minions. There’s a “Divorced Guy Energy” running through intact marriages too. It’s when the educated white suburban women say oh hail no! After his first vote for Trump in 2016 I held space for him to learn but after his second vote for Trump in 2020 and his plaintive cry, “what other choice do I have”I realized his moral compass was broken and that I was the one who needed to make a different choice. We’re still married but in name only. And it’s hard.

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Find a path out. You deserve to be able to move on. What choice does he have than to vote for a xenophobic, racist, misogynistic pig? You can do better.

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More and more this election is reminding me of the words of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a dissident German theologian locked up and eventually murdered by the Nazis. Bonhoeffer wrote that stupidity is more dangerous than evil. Here's the link to his letter written from prison on the occasion of the 10th anniversary of Hitler's election. I hope JVL will read it, it's all too apt to what's happening now.

chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://www.onthewing.org/user/Bonhoeffer%20-%20Theory%20of%20Stupidity.pdf

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Thank you. This letter sounds as if it is from today’s world, not 80 years ago.

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Maybe their wives left them BECAUSE they started wearing the red hat everywhere, putting anti-government window stickers on their pickups and parroting Tucker!

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"All of next week’s broadcasts will be open and free to the world"

Does this mean they might be released as podcasts too, for those who often need to use their phone for things other than staring at YouTube?

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Elon has this resentful, bitter energy and is MAGA, too. I imagine Trump also has 100% of self-described incels. Trump is nothing if not bitter and resentful. He knows he speaks directly to that entitled and “blameless” dark side that says “the world owes me.”

Men benefit greatly from marriage or long term monogamy, more than women do. It serves an important purpose of connection that, if not filled, could drive some men to seek belonging in negative ways.

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Slightly OT: One of the names many very-online detractors of Musk have bestowed upon the Cybertruck is the Incel Camino (a riff on the old Chevy El Camino name).

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It’s very enlightened of you to say that.

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Divorced Dude Energy??? 😂😂😎 Soooo, they’re willing to give up their personal freedom to Fascists???

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Fascists are ok as long as they're one's own fascists, remember? /s

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I know 2 divorced dudes that are primarily divorced because they are MAGA.

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No kidding?

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Nope..

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Kinda looks like all that proves is that women really hate Trump. But we knew that already. Here's another stat from 2023. 76% of young women consider being a MAGA Republican a red flag when looking for a partner. SEVENTY SIX PERCENT!

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Looks like there are going to be a lot more incels then…

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